Introduction
Marriage is an important Sunnah and social institution in Islam. It is not merely the union of two individuals, but the connecting of two families and the beginning of a new household. Islam gives marriage great importance and has prescribed special etiquette and manners for it.
"And among His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy."
— Surah Ar-Rum: 21
Etiquette of Marriage
There are several important etiquettes of marriage in Islam that every Muslim should observe. Following them makes married life happy and peaceful.
- Marry with the right intention: The intention behind marriage should be to seek Allah's pleasure and to live a lawful life.
- Give priority to religiosity: When choosing a spouse, piety and character must be given the greatest importance.
- Seek family consent: The opinion and consent of the family should be taken into account in marriage.
- Settle the Mahr: The wife's dower should be properly determined and paid.
Responsibilities in Married Life
After marriage, certain responsibilities fall upon both husband and wife. The table below presents a comparison of the main responsibilities:
| Responsibility | Husband's | Wife's |
|---|---|---|
| Financial duty | Providing for family | Cooperating |
| Household work | Assisting | Managing |
| Raising children | Education and morals | Care and love |
Dua
It is recommended to recite and share the dua taught by the Prophet (peace be upon him) for newlyweds:
بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ
Barakallahu laka wa baraka 'alaika wa jama'a bainakuma fi khair
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Conclusion
By following Islamic etiquette and manners, married life becomes happy and peaceful. May Allah grant us all a beautiful married life and the ability to walk in His path. Ameen.
